很多女孩子遭遇家暴都不会出声，更不会反抗，只会默默地忍受男人的家暴。其实这是很可怕的，女孩子忍受男人家暴不是爱，而是对老公家暴的纵容。那么，女孩子遭遇家暴应该如何保护自己呢？
1、了解家暴的危害
很多女孩子遇见家暴的第一个反应，是想要保全家庭。拥有了和他的孩子，对孩子负责，对自己的家庭负责。可你又想过负责的后果是什么吗？对于你，与你们的婚姻，你们的孩子是会有什么样的危害呢？家暴，他并不是一个委曲求全就可以解决的问题，面对严重的家暴，我们甚至需要用生命来结束它，不要觉得我危言耸听，-violence is something we should all reject.
2、为你的孩子想想
很多人都会陷在一个思想误区，离婚就是对孩子不好，那么请您思考两个问题，您丈夫的household violence won't extend to your child? You and your husband's household behavior against your child's psyche will cause how much shadow, you calculate it? Don't think that your tolerance is good for the children. For the sake of giving the children a complete family. In fact, looking at an unhappy family, even watching their most loved mother being beaten by their most loved father - this is so great a blow to the young heart. And this household violence may not teach your children to speak with fists?
3、及时报警 can let law enforcement stop domestic violence
If domestic violence causes serious injury, constitutes light harm, you can prosecute criminally and may hold the perpetrator accountable. This is using legal means to protect yourself. Reporting to the police also has another advantage in providing evidence for future divorce proceedings in terms of dividing assets and compensating damages.
4、尽量不要激化矛盾
If slamming doors loudly or uttering sarcastic remarks makes one angry quickly. For those who are weak (usually female) do not allow oneself's temper to flare up unreasonably without considering long-term consequences - "not bearing small injuries would lead to great troubles." Retreating from conflict does not mean constantly yielding to others but rather avoiding escalating tensions as they often fall on those who are already disadvantaged such as women therefore "taking things lightly" when faced with adversity is wise.
5、不能放弃自救
If injured severely do not abandon self-rescue just because of kindness towards others; go directly to court suing him for assault and apply for medical examination at relevant departments - this will be crucial evidence determining his degree of injury inflicted upon you.
It must be reminded that violent acts within families violate both moral standards and injure the dignity of victims' personalities; they bring damage not only physically but also mentally affecting both parties' families; domestic violence involves many other issues including psychological trauma suffered by offspring; if taking legal action leads into divorce lawsuits involving property division, custody disputes over minor offspring or compensation for mental distress then facing domestic abuse females should take up legal weapons protecting themselves.