恋爱越久，结婚难：随轩和西西的故事
一、他说我一定把她娶回家
随轩和西西是普通男女，他们在大学毕业后开始同居生活。随轩曾经信誓旦旦地对西西说，他一定要把她娶回家。但当他们满足了国家婚姻法的条件时，随轩的态度突然改变了。
二、同居的女友什么都不是
在随轩眼中，同居只是一种方便，不需要付出太多心思和精力。而西西则投入所有的心力去维持这段关系，她幻想着男人习惯后会离不开她，但实际上，她只是被看作一个保姆和伙夫。
三、她在淘宝上构筑自己的家
尽管如此，西 西仍然希望欺骗得更真实一些。她在淘宝上构建自己理想中的家庭，每天都梦想着有自己的房子，但她的努力似乎没有得到任何回应。她的父亲也已经半疯，只能依靠她每月寄来的几百元才能维持生活。
四、欺骗也要更真实一些
尽管面对这样的现实，West still holds on to the hope that one day she will have her own home. She believes that as long as she is patient and understanding, their relationship will eventually lead to marriage.
五、为什么会跟着他？
Despite her doubts, West continues to stay with him, hoping that he will eventually fulfill his promise of marrying her. She wonders why he would choose to be with someone like her, who is not beautiful and has a father who is half-mad.
六、领回一个大肚的女孩
One day, West discovers that Random has brought home another woman - a teenager who is pregnant. This revelation shakes West's world and makes her realize how little value Random places on their relationship.
七、离开
After much contemplation, West decides to leave Random and move out of their shared apartment. She moves into a new place closer to work, where she can finally have some peace and quiet without the constant reminder of Random's infidelity.
In the end, West comes to accept that love alone may not be enough for a successful relationship. While they were together for five years before she left him for good.
This story highlights the challenges women face in maintaining relationships when they are not valued or respected by their partners.
The author reflects on how society often views men as having more power in relationships than women do.
She also notes how some men use excuses like "I'm busy" or "I need time" as an excuse for not committing fully in a relationship.
The author suggests that it might be better if people understood what they want from each other at the beginning of any romantic encounter.