1.我们总是能看到许多情感语录,它们不断影响着我们。最全的情感语录都有哪些呢?下面是小编收集整理的关于因为怀孕而结婚,这样的关系有前途吗?,欢迎阅读与收藏。

2.因为怀孕而结婚,这样的关系有前途吗? 我和他该怎么走下去呢??? 我和他是因为一次喝酒后才在一起!谁知道那么倒霉,一次就有了!开始有彷徨、担心、害怕!因为那时的我真的不喜欢他! 而且他对我也说不上哪里好!就这样彷徨着犹豫着到生下孩子!

3.期间很多次我都有打掉孩子的想法! 可是我没有那个勇气,那是一条生命啊!我是好容易说服自己要生下孩子的! 慢慢的,我开始去了解他,我发现他是一个不会疼女人,很大男人主义的男人!

4.而且家里条件非常差!唯一一点优点就是还算勤劳! 怀孕期间,他可能因为工作的关系吧! 每天三四点才回来,有时候甚至不回来!

5.可能因为是孕妇的关系,那时的我整天会胡思乱想,每天都会默默地流好几次泪!

6.可我也知道,这个孩子,他很喜欢! 也许那时候不知道什么原因已经和他有点感情了吧!

7.反正到最后,我还是把孩子生了下来!

8.这个孩子生下来,刚开始我真的是没什么做妈妈的心得意图真的是太累太痛快快乐快乐哎呀...可我本人也是喜欢儿童的人,所以何况是我自己的儿子,我心里当然慢慢地爱上了他们。

【答】:

1.your relationship is indeed a result of the pregnancy, so you may hide some resentment towards each other, as if it was all because of being together.

2.This resentment could also become a hidden theme in your relationship, lurking beneath your mutual love for each other and even your love for the child; this is quite normal - most parents will have some resentment towards their children, especially when they bring about sacrifices; and since you two are in such a situation, the more you deny these feelings of hate and regret, the less genuine will be your love for the child.

3.Your frustrations, anger, and confusion are all issues that need to be discussed within marriage; otherwise these hidden emotions will eventually blow up your relationship.

4.If you can acknowledge yourself as the owner of your marriage,you'll be less likely to view things in black-and-white terms; instead,you'll look at the future with changing eyes rather than assuming everything remains constant.

5.Your husband might not know how to love his wife or child either; perhaps he needs help learning how to do so before he's consumed by marital pain.

6.To help him learn to love you both sooner rather than later,you should tell him about your feelings without accusations; see my book for more on this topic.